When Anna took her 7-year-old sister, Arianna to lunch at Chili’s, there was one issue with the order that should’ve caused Arianna to have a meltdown.
Arianna has autism, so when the waitress, Lauren, brought out a “broken” cheeseburger, she merely started eating her fries, and left the sandwich alone. It was Lauren’s response to Arianna’s broken cheeseburger that made her entire day, and ended up delighting the entire kitchen staff at the Chili’s, in Midvale, Utah.
“I want to share the experience that my husband, 7 year old autistic sister and I had today at the Chili’s location in Midvale, UT,” Anna wrote on Facebook. “Arianna, my little sister, didn’t waste any time when our waitress, Lauren, greeted us at our table. Arianna promptly ordered her cheeseburger with pickles, french fries, and chocolate milk before Lauren could even take our drink order. Lauren smiled and told Arianna, ‘Okay! I’ll be right back with your chocolate milk!’
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When we got our food I was wondering why Arianna wouldn’t touch her cheeseburger, but was going to town on her french fries. I asked her, ‘Arianna are you going to eat your cheeseburger?’ She calmly said,
‘No, I don’t want it.’ Cheeseburgers, or ‘Krabby Patties’ as we sometimes call them, are her FAVORITE! So this behavior was VERY strange. So I asked her, ‘Why don’t you want it?’ She replied, ‘It’s broken. I need another one thats fixed.’ Then it dawned on me why she wasn’t eating it. It’s because it was cut in half.”
“Being a child with autism, she has to have certain things in a particular order at all times. One slight change in her routine can change the course of the day instantly. When Lauren came back to check on us, I asked if we could order another cheeseburger and just add it to our check.
She had a concerned look on her face so I explained that Arianna has autism, and that in her mind, because the cheeseburger was cut in half, she thinks its broken and can’t eat it. I told Lauren I knew it sounded silly, but if we could just order an additional one we will gladly pay for it because there was nothing wrong with the one that was originally brought out.
Lauren was so sweet and just smiled and went along with Arianna, telling her ‘I brought you a broken cheeseburger?! You know what, I’ll have them cook you a new one!’ I loved this because rather than just taking it from the table, she actually TOLD Arianna what she was doing. While this seems insignificant, by her telling Arianna what she was doing, we avoided a melt down.
The manager, Bradley Cottermole, then came to our table, kneeled down, and said to Arianna, ‘I heard we gave you a broken cheeseburger! I am so sorry about that! We are making you a brand new one that isn’t broken, with pickles! I’ll bring you some french fries to munch on while you’re waiting, ok?’
“A couple of minutes later, Lauren arrived back at our table with cheeseburger #2. Arianna said, ‘OH FANK YOU! You fixded my cheeseburger!’ When Lauren walked away, Arianna just sat there for a second and looked at her new burger. She looked like so deep in thought….just staring at it….then she let out a big ‘OH I missed you!!’ and started kissing the burger over and over again.
I showed Lauren this picture and said, ‘I think we glorified the cheeseburger too much!’ She busted up laughing, and asked if she could go show her manager. She came back a minute later and said she showed everyone in the back kitchen area too, and that it made them all laugh and smile. I was so touched by this experience. Especially since I know people who have been asked to leave restaurants when their child with autism is being disruptive.”
Anna maintains a close relationship with her baby sister. It’s so awesome to know families and communities like this one have such a close connection that what could’ve ended in turmoil, is handled with love and grace. If you love the way Arianna was taken care of as she deals with autism, be sure to share this with friends and family on Facebook!
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